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So this is day two of my experiment in which for one week I will try to maintain the hotness. Here we go
6:00 a.m. : Psssh! Roll over hit snooze button
6:30 a.m. : I get a blackberry message “Alm wake up you need to get pretty” . 0_o Awww frig I’m late!! so I jump out of bed and stretch. At least I know what I’m wearing however, I fell asleep before ironing so off to ironing I go (groan can someone do this for me?!).
7:20 a.m. : and I plug in my curling iron then rush into the shower ( I do a mental check to ensure I turned on the heater).
7:45 I start hyperventilating as I try to tweet AND lotion AND BBM AND curl my hair. But then I read my tweets and I must say shout outs for all the encouragement a bitch was this >< close to grabbing a pair of jeans and some gel.
8:00 I press the nos (is suh it spell?) and get ready in crazy seconds everything is on rapid inclusive of makeup and hair. I’m happy with the results and I can leave on time to get to work. White and Grey pinstripe pants, White blouse and navy blue loafers.
As the day progresses I realize I now have the hang of this although I am still annoyed at the makeup on my cell phone but I brought a tissue to wipe it off and i did get another compliment at work “oww!”
By 3:13 i’m faded and need to touch up my make up but frankly I have no time I got owrk out the waazoo and i havent eaten lunch as yet. Im pretty certain I look stressed and hungry but when i finally get to look in the mirror I’m surprised I look normal.
By 5:15 no amount of MAC cosmetics technology can save me I’m ready to leave and so I do.
I must say however that on more than one occassion I almost juck out my eye when trying to put in my contacts. AND although the thong violation wasn’t as bad as yesterday I was still acutely aware that i was not alone all day (LOL). It is tiring to constantly be aware of ones appearance though. Maybe tomorrow will be better.
Day 2: Completed.
Love and Faith
Salutations People! Im one of those females who will always give respect and compliments when they are deserved. That being said let me get into my topic. I’m always seeing these women around the ones that are always put together Hair curled up, make up well done, no pantie lines and clothes ironed. You know these women man the ones who leave the chair smeilling like perfume when they get up… Anyways, Ive always admired them as a woman I know it takes a good amount of work to be so well put together all day. Anyhoo, I have decided to find out exactly how much work goes into looking like this daily. Now I’m no plain jane but trust me when it comes to work clothes I dont excactly go all out so follow me as I try to be hot ALL WEEK
DAY ONE (cue Law & Order dum dum)
6:00 a.m : Woke up on time looked chose a black flair skirt and turqouise top, nothing fancy I know but let’s play it safe for the first day. I do the requisites i.e. bathe, brush teeth and then I eye the thong skeptically for those of you who dont know I despise those things. Anyways, I decide to bite the bullet.
I put on make up and feel my skin as wth do the hair, shove the contacts in and head on out surprisingly on time.
8:30 : Reach work, we’re locked outside and I start worrying that my makeup might not look so hot in a couple of minutes. We get inside just in the nick of time and I notive a couple of my co workers staring at me funny.
9:15: Male co worker comments on my look saying “hey I guess I could get used to this” We head into production meeting where my “new face” becomes a 5 minute topic. I try not to squirm
As the day progresses I find that Im not as uncomfortable as I anticipated nevertheless I am annoyed with the makeup that comes off on my phone everytime I answer it. As I start to relax and get all diva drama strikes.
2:30 or 3:00 p.m.: The thong starts violating me I send BBM to sistren “I can’t do this this friggin thong is violating me.. mi mad fi tek it off and go commando” the response “Do it! and add that in your blog” well folks I didn’t. I squirm, I shift I slide but I did not take it off. But let me say it’s a sad affair when you looking on a clock so you can go home and take off a panty.
I work late and leave the office at 6:00 p.m. by this time my hair is messy, my make up is stale (forgot the kit for touch ups) and I’ve already filled you in onthe panty situation. As i drive home I seriously wonder if I can continue this project….
Day one: complete
Okay I’ll admit it, I’m a Greys Anatomy fan. That being said I was eagre to see the Patrick Dempsey chick flick Made Of Honour in which he plays a once carefree playboy who is asked by his best friend (played by the beautiful Michelle Monaghan) to be the ‘maid of honour’ at her wedding. The only ‘other’ obvious problem with this scenario, is he now realizes that he has fallen head-over-heels for his gal pal. It got me thinking about all those stories of best buddies turned lifelong partners I’ve heard about about. In many cases the feeling is mutual, but others, lifelong friendships have been shattered when one party realizes they just don’t feel the same way about the other. This now begs the question, Should you tell your best friend you want to move from a platonic relationship to a romantic one?
Mars has mixed feeling where this is concerned, so we’ll try to break it down into the most important things to consider before making your decision.
1). Familiarity doesn’t over-ride caution. Even though you’ve been with her for what you consider most of your life, when it comes to emotions, you might not know her as well as you think you do. Knowing her favorite color or flavor ice-cream is a far cry from how she will react to situations of the heart. In these situations it’s not a bad idea to read, re-read and read again before making your decision.
It’s already a lot harder to negotiate matters of tangible interest with the ones you love, so imagine how difficult it will be when it comes to your emotions.
2). It’s also possible she feels the same way, but just doesn’t know it yet. Sometimes you’ve become so familiar with a situation it’s hard to see it as anything else. Rum and Coke may have never known they would make such a spectacular drink until one of them was bold enough to mix with the other. Sometimes it’s up to you as the individual to shake things up and see what could possibly surface.
3). Then there’s the all or nothing rule. Is it better to live the rest of your life not knowing what may have been, or risk it all for the off chance that she may feel the same way? As a poker player my first instinct would be to yell “Srew it, I’M ALL IN”… but many a player have done the same thing and left the table empty handed. While it is true that the man who saves his chips and folds on every play could possibly make it to the end of the game, he still risks going home empty handed.
Advice: The most important thing to remember before making this decision is to reassure your gal pal that if she doesn’t feel the same, you still value the friendship and want things to be as they were. In some cases a woman’s greatest fear is that she does give it a try, and if things don’t work, you risk destroying something sacred.This is by all means possible, but it’s up to the two of you to remember the strong foundation for which the relationship was built in the first place, and that’s friendship. So if you feel the need to err on the side of caution, there’s nothing wrong with playing it safe, but just remember, the greater the risk, the sweeter the rewards!
Chivalry: courteous behavior, especially that of men towards women.(cheapskate man unu nuh haffi spend money suh yuh excuse lame)
What ever does that mean you ask. Well when you hop to it and say “aye baby mek wi do a ting nuh…” a message goes to dispatch that says “red alert, red alert, infiltrator detected!” then pokey police is deployed and you get’s no love. But when you come at me calm and cool, with that chivalrous swag everybody up in headquarters chilling not even seeing that you’ve broken down my walls and by the time they notice you done got some loving 2 or 3 times (if you can keep up).
It’s 2009 most women are on their own making money/buying houses/starting families and just basically justifying why they have that “S” on their chest. So why is it that the one arena we cannot conquer is the one of Love? Could it be that we are getting conflicting messages from the other team? For instance, I have heard numerous male friends speak on the fact that they hate a woman who pretends, that they want someone who is upfront, someone who will not beat around the bush, in essence “If she like me, she like me, and we just work from that”. However, I am a little confused as these same men are the ones who wife up the women who act as if they have never seen a peen in all their lives.
Oh come on you know the ones I’m speaking of, the “virginzzz” the ones who MUST be in a relationship to be sexually involved with anyone ( at least that’s what they claim). And if it was a genuine criteria I see nothing wrong with that but it usually is some spiel practiced infront of a mirror. The ones who(with a straight face) will tell a guy that they’ve only slept with 3 men in all their 34 years of life and those were all serious relationships. Those are the girls men inevitably wife up. Those are the ones you wine and dine not knowing that while you wining and dining in hopes of likkle nash Joe grind coming over round 11pm to sort out har bizniz. Then, when couple years down the line you find out that yes she did sex that whole crew but everyone thought you knew you ready to have a heart attack.
My opinion is that some women react differently with different men. While one man can get a girl to do the nasty in the parking lot another one will never have the chance of seeing that side of her. So don’t judge the girl maybe just maybe you have that power over her
My Question is:
Does this type of behaviour encourage ladies to be continually deceptive to their male counterparts?
The fear of being judged is stronger than you think ….
You’d have to be as stupid mofo to believe that a girl isn’t sleeping with anyone. Most females love sex as much as any other man.
I get a little suspicious of the above mentioned virginnz cause its 2009 I haven’t bucked up a genuine one in years. To the sisters out there being royal and true I’m proud of you. But I like a girl who is upfront and plays no games and I hate a liar. You could sleep with me the first night we meet in the end its your attitude after, that will help me determine if your a ho
That’s the Real Deal
Love and Faith