As promised here is the second part of What Men Want When Dating. I can’t say I disagree with any of these rules. Read and give your two cents, I wanna know what you agree with.
6. Learn to read to the signs, watch the questions/statements and trust your instincts:
I don’t subscribe to hard and fast sex timelines like waiting until a certain # of dates to kiss or even sleep with someone. Feel it out and when it feels natural and right just do it. Any guy who’s gonna judge u for giving it up too soon is an ***hole and you shudnt be dating him anyway. I mean shit, I like me why shouldn’t you?
That being said
“Its ok you can come inside me” is definately a phrase that has its specific comfort level that needs to be reached before u drop it. This goes double for dropping a deuce at our house.
7. Focus: unless you actually are bored and want to leave…get off your bbm/WhatsApp/Twitter…tweeting on a date is a good way to end it before it starts. A lot, if not all of the time the one thing that cements a woman as wife or GF material is conversation. We want a hot girl with some sense, insight and perspective. You know those dates where you both chat constantly, few, if any uncomfortable pauses and you are actually interested in each other’s answers? No? Oh, sorry…carry on to #8 then.
8.Head…once we’re intimate and the basic safety and equipment checks have been passed, this is standard. Everytime I meet someone who is irked by giving head I just laugh…you’re gonna lose ur man/woman like a set a car keys…”It was here a minute ago, where can they have gone”
And remember enthusiasm is at least as important as skill in this department.
9. Empty the gun :
I have a rule…”If u wake him up, u have to put him back to sleep” suck it, fuck it, jerk it off…but leave it happy and we’ll like u a lot more. That thing has a mind of its own and is dangerous when left loaded.
10. Listen to our WORDS…and look for follow up actions :
We ‘Real’ men tend to be very honest about intentions…if we just want sex without complications we’ll say we’re “not looking for anything serious right now” and if we are looking for a relationship (when is that though really?) Then We’ll be more interested in your life and probably introduce you to our friends…if you meet our kids then we really like you. When a guy asks u “How was your day” and actually listens to ur answer then u know u got him on the line.
Don’t make the mistake of thinking that just because we keep having sex that our relationship has gotten deeper or that you’re now our girlfriend.
…If the situation is gonna change we will let you know.
Note from Mamachel: Can I get a praise stomp for #10?! *Shankle dips*