Editor’s Note: I read the title of this topic when it hit my email and just KNEW I was in for laughs. No man Bonnie is one crazy gyal. Read and enjoy.. Where does she find these crazy men from though? I thought I was bad
Jailbirds, hoodlums, babymama drama & such delights!! And when the bar set so high only Jesus can reach it
Hey Y’all so if you follow me on twitter you know this week I confessed my little dalliance on the thug side of life…slightly disastrous
I think what intrigued me the most is just how different he was from any guy I have ever spoken to. My style is more A6 than it is escalade y’know wha a mean.
My style however is never broke and doesn’t beg me for money and I don’t care which one a unu want say me unreasonable. My ex man never, not once allow me fi buy him so much as a patty , whoooo is youuu fi ask me but back to missa bruk shut
What was most alluring was how easily he would admit things you would normally be ashamed of, almost like he was telling me to impress me, does it work that way? Are there girls more impressed with your bad deeds? (Serious question), cus I gotta tell you not much shuts me up, but the words “arrested on suspicion of murder” ye that’ll do it.
Admitting you were planning to kill your brother in law but enuh cus you sister have a baby wid him , you low it ……proudly announcing your three kids under ten by three different mamas, and then alerting me ,should I want twins just let him know .
And all of that didn’t hold a candle to “me need three gran fi deal wid sommen till Monday “. Of course I answer sooo wha? He says: so you can lend me ? ……. And I swear that shocking as it was DIDN’T HOLD A CANDLE TO THE SILENCE IN MY EARS WHEN I WENT TO THE GAS STATION AND HIM SIT THERE LIKE HIM NUH SEE THE CAR PON “E” ….mind you I was taking him to pick up his car and you see my car on E and somehow somehow u siddun deh like u dumb blind and deaf ! When fi di betta part a three years me not even know wha gas cost!!!
That whole experience brought me back to some haunting words, once my ex ( now deceased in my mind) and I weren’t speaking ,after two weeks I called him , I say how come you never call you never miss me? He said ye but I knew you would call. I say really how you know that? He says Bonnie because I know you and what you need from a man and I know what’s out there, so yea I knew eventually I would hear from you. FUCK DIS SHIT MAN ( scuse the French)
COULD YOU EXPLAIN WHEN DID IT BECOME ACCEPTABLE FOR MEN TO BEG WOMEN FOR MONEY? Isn’t the very essence of a man to profess, provide & protect? Sooo where these men come from that expect to just sit in silence? I don’t understand ye I had money to pay , but the mere fact I am taking you on the road, and you want me , you can’t say baby don’t worry I got that ? Cus I swear I reach for my purse just out of courtesy expecting him to run me good ting di purse never empty …this new world dating is jus…
Anyway y’all have a great weekend will update you on my weekend on Monday.
We chasing that white powder for 2012 lol
XOXO,
Bonnie,
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LOL. Hold on. While I don’t make it a habit to defend people who have been arrested on suspicion of murder, or that plotted to kill someone, I must disagree with the author.
The man in question asked to borrow $3,000 “until Monday”. Judging by the fact that you expected him to have the money to fill your gas tank, it sounds like he would be good for it.
Borrowing ≠ Begging, which is what you were doing at the gas station. LOL.
I think you need to find your way back into your ex’s good graces, or find some other sugar-daddy.
PS: What does “professing” have to do with being a man?
Firstly let me say i welcome all comments good or bad … now lets have a convwersation.
You don’t know my ex or exes so your assumption that they were sugar daddies is for one incorrect . For two the words sugar daddy or gold digger or any other related term of reference does not in anyway hurt ,intimidate or frighten me. My mother isn’t a gold digger she is a woman with a husband that makes sure his family is good. My brother who is not yet in his mid twenties makes sure if he makes even 10 dollars he splits it with his girl because they’re in this together he learnt that from my father. Neither are my aunts, cousins or girlfriends golddiggers , because we know what to expect from a man , because we were raised my men and not boys.
I could give two hoots of a rats ass if he was good for it , he had no right whatsoever to outright ask me for money , much less to borrow money if there was flag colour worse than red that would be it . Because a man or any man that i would care to associate and call my own , his pride alone would prevent him from EVER coming to his woman or worse a girl he wanted to make his woman and that was my point regarding my ex. I have certainly offered , asked how can i help , and each time i have been dismissed because i am here to be his woman not his bank account . I firmly believe that a man should court me that he should make the effort for me , to make sure i feel safe , comfortable and happy . You may disagree but u ain’t my man soo
I have expectations of my man and he of me , I know what he needs from his woman going in ,if i can’t live up to it then i leave it alone , but best believe if I agree with his expectations i am there full force. , i’m not sure if you’re a guy or a girl i think ur a guy though . so you should have expectations of your mate as well and whatever you require from your mate is your business .
thanks for reading , catch you next week… xoxo
It has NEVER been acceptable and I commend “Bonnie” for sharing her story and speaking out against this. I swear…these new breed of fellas need to go back up the womb from which they came and leave room on earth for the men who know how to treat a woman properly. Know your role , Clyde!
LOL
Well I agree with you that we all have different expectations from our significant others, but I doubt I can get you to see the apparent hypocrisy in your statements. However, that’s okay and I certainly wasn’t trying to scare you with the term “sugar daddy” — it’s just a lot easier for me to type (and cooler sounding) than “another dude willing to spend off his money minding you to try and purchase your affection/attention”.
Of course, I don’t (think I) know you or your family, and so cannot comment as to the nature of any of your relationships. I’m assuming that you had genuine affection for your ex who took care of your bills (which is good), and I have no problem with him paying them. Demanding that he pay is a whole ‘nother story though.
Now, I’m still awaiting the “professing” explanation, since I am a guy and don’t have a clue what you mean…
yes you’re right we’re gonna have to disagree since thats what u assume a man is doing purchasing your affection and attention ,. But only a certain kind of man thinks this way so I’m cool with your thought process actually . But I am not sure where i ever said my man pays my bills or that i demanded but again only a certain type of man finds asking women for money etc etc okay ….as usual thanks for reading
*second attempt at an apology, after inadvertently going to previous webpage in Firefox*
Ahem, so I feel well fool right now. I don’t know what lick my head on January 26th when I first read your article, but my mind incorporated facets of another article, from a different author into the experience. Long story short, I was reacting to things that are clearly not written here.
So please ignore/forget/forgive anything after “Borrowing ≠ Begging”, except for the
face, and the question (which is no longer important).
I am so VERY sorry for the sugar daddy comment!
- QBF
PS: This is why eye-witness testimony is notoriously unreliable, as everything you experience is being adjusted by your expectations, and what you’ve experienced before.
PPS: I’m still looking forward to your next installments!
PPPS: I feel like someone who only got their news from Fox News (fair & balanced), and suddenly learned about MSNBC, BBC, or Al Jazeera…